Alternative Facts? Greed? Who visited me?
Please show us the source of your data confirming that people were indeed not clicking on each others profiles afraid of the awkwardness of the "visited you" tab. Without the proper evidence we can also speculate that the idea of removing that feature is just another move to convince people to join the A-list (to be able to see who likes you instead). So, without proper source, I am obligated to believe you guys are using "alternative facts" to justify your greed.
If thats the case, then just be honest with your users: the visitors tab was influencing negatively on your revenue, and therefore was removed - as any other business would do.
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