Progression

OkC has come a long way since I was last on it even a year ago! I love how there are expanded options for describing your gender and sexual preference, and that you can choose not to be viewed by straight people if you wish. Not that I have anything against straight people, but if youre on here looking for a gay partner and straight people keep popping up in your connections it unnecessarily fluffs up your options, which can become frustrating.

I think it would be very beneficial to give couples who are looking for threesomes their own category to select when they create their profile (or want to edit later) and filter their connections. That way, their matches show people who have selected they are interested in participating in threesomes as well.

Heres why I bring this up; I am listed as a bisexual woman on my profile, and I am looking for a long term relationship. As a result, Ive been hit up by couples on multiple occasions for a threesome to the point where I had to tell couples not to message me on their profile. I have seen other bi women write a similar message on their profiles. I get that theres no way for them to know whether someones into threesomes or not (unless they directly say that on their profile, of which I have seen one or two). I wonder if giving couples an option to discover people who disclose that one thing theyre open to will create a much smoother and more successful experience with OkC!

Lisa Lionheart about OkCupid Dating: Date Singles, v9.2.0