OkCupid Jumped the Shark; Human Nature issue
Taking Visitors away removes a vital part of my arsenal. When a woman visits my profile, it doesnt matter whether or not she likes me.
Her interest was peaked to visit me. I have the A List for invisible browsing. I would go to her profile, read it, if i am interested I will reveal my visit and send her a playful, witty opener based on her visiting me and something from her profile. OKC took that from me.
"Likes", Match percentages, and questions dont really mean that much. There are many women I see who match me are 90% and above and dont show me an interest when I contact them.
The "Likes" I received were mainly based on the swipe game looking at my photos and not my profile. "Likes" without visits mean nothing. I mainly get "likes" from overseas.
The other problem which is not a problem with any online dating site/app is human nature. The majority of women arent, and know they dont have to, visit mens profiles. They just sit back and let us battle each other for their interest all the while boasting to their girlfriends on how many hits they get.
Also, what is wrong if a guy only says Hi, How are you?, etc...? Maybe the guy is a little nervous. Once he gets going he will be alright. I dont do this to women or complain when women just say Hello to me. Many of these women are ridiculous.
Since this new change, I havent even received any likes. Even overseas! I will be disabling my account soon.
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