Lots of interest, no actual dates!

I seem to be very popular on this app and many many men and women have contacted me. However I have met very few of them and none of them have wanted to take me out on a date. They complement me highly, to the skies, and then they disappear.

they mostly just want to have sex with me, and when they find out that I wont do that they go away. There are other men who dont mention the sex thing, but after a message or two messages they just disappear. I find this to be disappointing and disheartening. Despite my overwhelming popularity, -- I was even messaged by OkCupid staff to say that I was one of their more attractive members and that I would be shown to their more attractive members – – when is that going to happen?

Ive gotten no real dates and Ive been on it for months. Where are the men who want to take me out? Or the women? Theres a lot of attention here but nothing ever happens. Theres a lot of disappointment and sadness.

I was also contacted by OkCupid staff to say that I would be part of their matchmaking service and I would be contacted within two days, and its been two weeks and I havent heard from the woman who contacted me. I have tried contacting her but have gotten no response.

Could somebody from OK Cupid staff please explain the matchmaking service that I was messaged about? I am very curious but have nowhere to go to answer my questions.

WolfGirlLA about OkCupid Dating: Date Singles, v9.2.0